The Question: CAN YOU HELP ME I WAS BORN MARCH 8 1976 858 AM.IM BEYOND DEPRESSED I DONT KNOW WHAT IS MY TALENT BUT I HAVE SO MANY WISHES. GOT OUT OF ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP I KNOW HE DOESNT LOVE ME BUT HES STILL IN MY DREAMS LAST TIME HE CALLED ME ,I TOLD HIM HE HAD NOTHING TO ASK ME OR TALK TO ME ABOUT AND I HUNG UP. HE WAS BORN MAY 6 1980. BUT NOW MY FIRST LOVE CONTACTED ME I WAS 13 HE WAS 19 LAST I SAW HIM WAS WHEN I WAS 15. HE WAS BORN NOV 8 1969 PLEASE HELP

The Answer: You are a Pisces. Guy #1 that you talk about is a Taurus and based on your birth-dates your Sun’s are exactly sextile each other. The sextile creates a lot of sexual chemistry, but by themselves, not enough substance for a really lasting relationship. Looking at his chart, he appears to be very sexual, and charismatic but with a hard streak in his personality - which is not easy for a Pisces. So it created a mild sense of rapport between you, but beyond that you lacked deeper values and substance to glue you together on a deep level. The hard, but empowering choice here is for you to let go of it completely - no matter how hard it is. You say yourself that he doesn’t love you - so let it go, there are lot’s of fish in the sea.

Guy #2 is far more generally compatible, as a Scorpio with his Sun trine your Sun. This is one of the best Sun-Sun combinations possible, so you made a good choice in that way. And from his chart, he certainly appears to be a much sweeter, family oriented guy. But at 13-15 years old, you were WAY too young to make any permanent decisions. This one was a good learning experience and he should have taught you that you never need to accept less - ever.

When I look at your chart, it appears to me that your problems don’t stem from either guy #1 or guy #2, but from your own inner conflicts. The squares in your chart indicate a tendency to self-sabotage and shoot yourself in the foot just when you get close to a dream or goal. This also has some roots in your early childhood or parental patterning. Ultimately, your choice to keep emotionally connected to Guy #1 certainly looks like self sabotage to me. This is a life pattern for you - and it will not change unless you do some inner work to resolve your inner conflict. There is some internal reason why you create drama in your love life and this drama keeps you from living your real destiny. The fastest way that I have seen to resolve these types of inner conflicts is the healing and hypnotherapy work that I do with my clients. If you are interested in setting up a session like this then call (310) 455-2210 or email aura*astrologychick.com (replace * with @).

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